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Affirming Your Dream Life – Life Update

In last weeks post, I promised I would give you the update on my life and what’s currently going on. This post can be either lengthy or short. As I’m writing it, I feel like it may be a short read but if you’ve been reading my blog for a while now, you know how much I can talk.

All this year I’ve been slowly speaking positivity into my life. Affirming your dream life starts with believing it can happen.

How do you start that? Speak it out loud. The more I practice this method, the more I learn how true that is. So much can manifest with just your mouth. I’ve manifested good and bad things in my life. Let’s get into the post so I can give you this life update!

Life update

First and foremost, I lost two more family members. My cousin passed away on Christmas Eve and my grandfather passed away this past weekend. It was almost like 2018 all over again when I experienced losing my great cousin then my grandmother. The difference this time is that I’m affirming positivity and peace into my life. It still hurts like hell, losing my grandfather was a long horrible process as he was on life support since January 21st.

I hate talking about this because I get emotional and my mind starts processing everything but you know that my goal is to be transparent with my life. The good and the bad and the ugly I want to share with you, in moderation, to show you that my life is real and not some beautiful free products and services filled dream. I experience pain and hurt just like the rest of you.

Getting back to the topic, I mentioned earlier in this post that I’ve been speaking positivity into my life. My word of the year is prosper and I feel that’s exactly what I’ve been doing. Regardless of the deaths and struggles I’ve experienced, I have grown and prospered so much in these short four months of 2019.

Affirming your dream life isn’t easy, but it’s possible.

I have a page in my bullet journal that is filled with strong positive affirmations. They range from confidence, finance, social and more. I try to read them and say them aloud every day but I would be lying if I said I did that. However, I do say out loud how what I desire is what I deserve. I also speak other positive affirmations like “Wanting to be rich and travel all over the world is extremely possible for me.” “I deserve love and respect and riches in health and wealth.” “I’m going to earn x amount of dollars and treat myself to a vacation.” I’m sure you get the point.

Affirmations can literally be as simple as saying I’m beautiful. As long as you say it out loud, even if you don’t believe it at first, you’ll start to feel different. By doing this you’re literally reprogramming your mind to believe these words.

Lately, my biggest affirmations have been about traveling, income, and debt. I was recently sued for a credit card I haven’t been able to pay off so now I’m forced to file bankruptcy (here’s that transparency again!). However, as soon as I received the papers about the suit, I gave my problems to God, prayed, meditated then affirmed that this situation would be handled in a timely and peaceful manner. While I am still acting on the bankruptcy, I am not worried about this situation as I know and firmly believe it will get taken care of.

In short. Speak good and positive things over your life. Let your voice be heard by your own ears, and by others. This journey of life is a tough one but the more positive you try to be, the easier life can get for you!

Thank you for reading this if you’ve made it down here! This turned out to be another long post and for that, I apologize, but things discussed needed to be said.

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  1. This is such an uplifting post. Stay positive, continue down YOUR path, and never let yourself be swayed.
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  2. So sorry to learn about your loss. Life is really short and I agree with your quotes, stay positive and say good things about us and others. Only if we stay in a positive environment, we could be happy.

  3. it’ so important to do affirmation every day. I find it really helps get through tough times.

  4. Great post. Sometimes you have to encourage yourself.

  5. definitely have to be your own cheerleader at times. But its good for the self

    1. Agreed!

  6. Affirmations, said daily and if needed multiple times per day, have quite a bit of power don’t they. It can help through the toughest days.

    1. Exactly my thoughts, Dennis! There’s no limit on how many times you can affirm your life!

  7. It is important to always keep your dreams in mind and do everything possible so that they do not break!

  8. I am so sorry to hear about your losses. As you say, it is so important to keep affirming and thinking positive and I wish you the very best x

  9. I am very sorry to hear about your losses, it’s so hard find a positive way to raise through the pain. I do hope that life will be kinder to you in the near future.

  10. Stay positive girl, keep it up!! Great article

    1. Thank you, Myriam!

  11. So sorry to hear of your losses, that must have been a really tough time for you.
    Stay strong, stay positive. x

    1. It really was. It felt like life didn’t want me to be happy. Thank you for your kind words, Jayne.

  12. I’m so sorry to hear 🙁

    1. Thank you, Jordan!

  13. This is so inspiring. It’s so important to stay positive even when times are hard. I’m sorry for the losses in your family, stay strong x

  14. I am so sorry for your loss. It is never easy to face such a loss. I admire your inner strength and courage. wishing you the best.
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    1. Thank you so much, Melissa! Your words are appreciated.

  15. I’m incredibly sorry for your losses. I do agree with you. If we stay positive and believe in ourselves, we can do anything.
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  16. Great and inspirational post! I like to start my day believing in it and myself. To clam down and starting a fresh new day.

    1. Yes! It’s great to start the day off with positive affirmations

  17. You are so positive, so happy. I smile every time I read you. Very nice life update, I will never stop liking this read.
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  18. now, ive learned to think and speak positively because when i stay positive, it radiates and see the effect on the people around us as well.

    1. Yay! Glad you practice that!

  19. This is a very uplifting blog post. Sending hugs and positive thoughts your way girlie!

  20. I do believe in positive affirmations and having faith. I do hope it gets better for you and again I am so sorry for your loss.

  21. I do believe in affirmations, prayer, and positivity. I think that a person can control their mood, so it’s important to think positive thoughts.

    1. I agree, Glaemour! Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts.

  22. I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and yours in my prayers. Keep staying positive and living in their honor. XO

  23. I just loved your nice ideas to groom your happiness. They all look helpful for spreading the joy and cheer in lives.
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  24. Positivity can bring such a great change in life. Thanks for sharing.

  25. I am so sorry for your loss. keep positive

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